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I used to talk about my experiences.. until I felt like they had overstayed their welcome. I was always looking to teach and eventually felt like I no longer was. in 2020 I decided fuck that. sometimes there is no outward advice to give. but I am still going to tell the story. even if there isn't a rainbow and butterflies "and now I'm a better me because of it" ending. here it is. here is what I have to say.



Sunflower November 29, 2016

A Breath of Fresh Air

I have tried oh so hard for the past few years to never do this. However, I've came to the realization that simply not talking to the negative people that were in my life just isn't enough. They tr...

Sunflower October 29, 2016

How to be Your Own Water

In order to grow as sunflowers, we are going to need water. Of course I'm meaning metaphorically, but you should actually drink lots of water to keep a healthy diet! Anyway... in this case, when...

Sunflower October 18, 2016

Making Time Your Friend

Time is so complicated. It can make you feel like you have a lot of it to complete whatever project you need to get done, or whatever plans you have made to kick start your future, pretty much anythi...

Sunflower October 9, 2016

I’m really happy, and that’s okay.

I can't believe I can say this, but I am okay. So I've had a pretty rough life so far. Yeah others have probably had it worse, but my life's been pretty crazy too. Whenever I've felt a tad bit of hap...

Sunflower September 12, 2016

Likes Do Not Equal Self Worth

Don't base your worth on likes. We seem to live in a time where social media rules our lives. We wake up and immediately check our phones. Most the time, sites like Facebook, Twitter and Instagram ar...

Sunflower September 6, 2016

When there are clouds but no rain.

There may be clouds, but it may not rain. We all like to believe that every single day is a win for our self esteem. That no matter what happens, we are always able to pick ourselves up and still s...

Sunflower August 28, 2016

Why those Kardashian Memes aren’t Helping

We all have our feelings about the Kardashian C(K)lan. Honestly, you either love them or hate them. I am on the love side. They just have such great style and hardcore family values that I wish my ...

Blog Tips & Tricks August 22, 2016

5 Tools That Helped Rebrand my Blog

  *This post contains affiliate links. All opinions are mine, and I would never suggest a product I do not personally use. I cannot lie: A rebrand is really hard work. Especially if you are ...

Sunflower August 21, 2016

My Favorite Songs for a Confidence Boost

  Whenever I need a pick me up, big or small, these songs are help me through it. Music gives me life. No, I can not LIVE without music. It has gotten me through so many hard times as well ...

Sunflower August 21, 2016

Learning to Accept Compliments

It took me a while to finally just say thank you. It got to the point that some of my friends would hit me and say, "Cat, just take the freaking compliment." or they would just stop giving me the...