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I used to talk about my experiences.. until I felt like they had overstayed their welcome. I was always looking to teach and eventually felt like I no longer was. in 2020 I decided fuck that. sometimes there is no outward advice to give. but I am still going to tell the story. even if there isn't a rainbow and butterflies "and now I'm a better me because of it" ending. here it is. here is what I have to say.



Sunflower June 28, 2017


*this post contains affiliate links. all opinions are my own and I wouldn't suggest anything I don't already love! “He left the drapes open, watched the lights of the cars and of the fast food join...

Catherine Holmes Photography June 23, 2017

Shane & Hannah

“he placed his hands on my mind before reaching for my waist my hips or my lips he didn't call me beautiful first he called me exquisite - how he touches me” ― Rupi Kaur, Milk and Honey ...

Sunflower June 14, 2017

I Give It Everything I Have

“i have what i have and i am happy i’ve lost what i’ve lost and i am still happy - outlook” ― Rupi Kaur, Milk and Honey There are some people that put their everything into everything without fear. ...

Sunflower June 6, 2017

Fuck Society’s Standards

*This post contains affiliate links. “other women's bodies are not our battlegrounds” ― Rupi Kaur, Milk and Honey Every single day, I look in the mirror and have a mental war with what I see. S...

Sunflower May 31, 2017

You Can’t Be Afraid of Living

There are so many things I wish I hadn't been afraid to do. Like being afraid to talk to people, or to stay out past 9, or to try new foods. Hell, I'm afraid to even give out my business cards and I ...

Sunflower May 15, 2017

Becoming my Biggest Fan

I am probably my biggest obstacle. When there is something I want to do, within minutes I am already in my head with a thousand reasons why not to do it. It has honestly held me back from a lot of di...

Sunflower April 19, 2017

Anniversary + Photo Session Giveaway!

I didn't really wake up knowing it was the anniversary of my blog. It was when I logged on to Facebook and saw a "On This Day," post that I realized. Holy shit guys, one whole year. To be even more h...

Sunflower April 7, 2017

Being the Ugly Friend

I always felt like the ugly friend. I was never the one you singled out in a group of people because I caught your eye. I would always be in places with my friends and awkwardly stand off to the side...

Sunflower March 27, 2017

Even the Nice One Has Limits.

The number one thing my best friend says about me, is that I am too nice. I can't help it. I have literally always been this way. Although, at times, I have been completely pushed over for other's ga...

Sunflower March 20, 2017

Self Portraits

There comes a time when you need to get in front of the camera. It was honestly like I wasn't really seeing myself. I mean, I look at myself in the mirror all the time. But self portraits allow me to...